You’re Not Just Settling For Safe, You’re Actually Self-Sabotaging

Oftentimes you’ll find yourself faced with the decision to choose between what is safe versus what is risky— what is difficult versus what is easy. Depending on the decision you make, it will either propel you forward or set you backwards. The decision you make, needs to be one that keeps you on your unique path of alignment.

Stop settling for safe because you feel like your dreams are out of reach. Stop settling for safe in your relationships, pursuits and goals because you think it’s the best you can do for now. Stop telling yourself to settle for things that you only halfway want. Stop telling yourself that half ass efforts are better than nothing. You don’t have to settle for pieces of someone, or pieces of your inner desires. You deserve to have the whole thing.

Playing it safe is just another form of self-sabotage that you refuse to realize. Eventually you’ll regret your safe decisions and wish you would’ve went after that thing you really wanted. Don’t live in regret and don’t sell yourself short. Go after what you want, who you want, how you want it and when you want it. Give yourself your hearts desires.

Unpopular opinion #1: You don’t have to go through pain in order to experience love, or to be happy. You don’t have to struggle in relationships to prove your worth. You don’t have to let people treat you bad just because you’re close to them.

Unpopular opinion #2: You don’t have to settle in life for anything. Some people will tell you to get what you can, but I say get what you deserve. Go after that very thing that will make your heart smile. Don’t settle for unsafe environments.

Some people will settle for safe and really think they are living life. Honor and accept yourself for all that you want. Don’t let your Inner critic steer you wrong by telling you to stop. Trust that the process will be worth it. Have patience to know what you really want will come to you in due time if you align yourself to receive it.